In Owen-Withee there is a garden with my daughter’s name, Kyanna, on it. On the surface it is easy to recall a 7 year old girl that died of brain cancer, simply because it has her name. To a point a you would be right in thinking that. It is a remembrance in a way, but it also a symbol of so much more that you don’t see and is lost.
It is not hard to find the bad in life. It would seem that by looking at a news feed or even your Facebook feeds that there is bad all over. Horrible things happening what seems like all the time. There seems to be an endless supply of this news that we are fed and at least for me after so many years of it, you can get lost in that. You can start to become more cynical and start to close yourself and may even start to believe all that you read or see in the news, because after all if there was good in the world we would surely hear about it, right? The good is often overlooked or forgotten. Finding a symbol of good things is even harder.
For anyone that has received an unfathomable amount of help, it changes you. It changed me. When you see people that have no idea who you are and are trying to help for no better reason than that they believe it is right thing to do, that leaves a lasting impression. You are awed, humbled, grateful, and can even be meant to feel unworthy of all that has been given to you. Asking for help is just as hard as receiving it.
When I look at the garden in Owen-Withee I remember my daughter, however more importantly I remember all those that made that possible. I remember people coming together to make something better, because they felt that a situation was wrong. I see a symbol of people that care and are trying to make the world a better place. I see people helping someone else in a time of need. I see the good in people when I see that garden, and I remember there were many people that made that possible, they are the stars in our night sky. Simply put, the garden reminds me of the goodness in humanity. For me, it is a symbol and an embodiment of all things that are good in this world. I hope when you look upon the garden you will see that as well.